Preparing The Honeymoon Suite

This is a major detail that is not discuss, at all- Preparing the Honeymoon Suite. The Wedding Day is filled with so much excitement and adrenaline, that the couple can experience the “crash” that many couples feel after the festivities have come to a close. This post will address the “Wedding Night” and the smallest details that help make this night comfortable and relaxing. Of course, you will not be able to prep the suite, so ask family and/or friends (who are not participating in the wedding party) to assist in this task.

Consider the following questions and apply the suggestions to the experience you want your wedding night to present:

What Will Help Us Relax? Depending on your personality, the idea of relaxation varies. For some, it may be drinking a glass of wine and for others it could be watching a movie. To relieve a day’s worth of stress, consider scheduling an in-room couple’s massage. If your hotel does not offer this amenity after hours, I’m sure concierge can point you in that direction. If you can’t make the professional massage happen, give each other a nice rub-down or foot massage!

What’s The Ambience? What if you want to listen to a favorite CD, or what if you have packed your iPod and some speakers (will you need a charger)? Also, Soothing scents can enhance nearly every experience, so consider bringing some scented candles or room fragrance. Soothing scents such as lavender or vanilla will help your post-wedding transition. As far as lighting, candlelight can be most flattering. There’s a chance that the suite you are staying in has adjustable lighting (which means less work for you), so be sure to ask. Please Note: if you are going to bring candles, make sure that you bring candle holders or some type to candle the melted wax- you don’t want to have to pay any room damage fees. As a precaution, make sure that there is a fire extinguisher nearby for any unforeseeable emergencies.

What Will We Eat? With all the rush and attention, you probably did not feel like or did not get a chance to fully enjoy your dinner at the reception. You will likely feel like consuming something light, without sugar or caffeine. Consider packing light appetizers to have waiting in the suite, or better yet pre-order room service with an ideal meal in mind for you and your sweetie.

What Will We Drink? First and Foremost, drink something hydrating before you drink more alcohol. Whether a cup of tea or a glass of wine, have your favorite beverages and proper essentials (ice, cups/glasses, tea, etc.) waiting for you. If you plan on drinking alcohol, plan ahead and purchase it at a store- if you purchase from your hotel, you can expect at least a 100% mark-up on the price.

Take A Nap. Ok, so let’s be realistic…. Who really has energy for “Wedding Night” festistivies after 10-12 hours of excitement and rush (not to mention, the weeks of stress leading up to the wedding day)??? Before you completely unwind for the evening, set an alarm or schedule a wake-up call, and then take in a nice mid-sized nap. One you awake, you can shower or bathe…. AND THEN begin the festivities!

The Wake-Up Call. Perhaps you have a “Post-Wedding” Brunch with the family and wedding party the next morning, or a flight to catch to your Honeymoon destination. Be sure to call the front desk for a wake-up call, or bring your own alarm to set. You will not want to oversleep if you have plans for the next morning.